Dancing Around the Volcano
Freeing Our Erotic Lives - Decoding the Enigma of Gay Men and Sex New edition
By (author) Guy Kettelhack
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Dancing Around the Volcano by Guy Kettelhack
Book DescriptionGay men have long been told that, regardless of their individual characters and desires, they should asp ire to monogamous sexual and romantic relationships. Now Ket telhack offers a path to sexual liberation that embraces the paradoxes of sex. '
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Book DetailsISBN: 9780609801512
(198mm x 129mm x 12mm)
Imprint: Three Rivers Press
Publisher: Random House USA Inc
Publish Date: 2-Dec-1997
Country of Publication: United States
Books By Author Guy Kettelhack
Firt-year Sobriety, Paperback (September 1998)
The first in a series of three recovery guides covering the first three years of sobriety, this text includes the voices of many women and men who have struggled through the often baffling territory of first-year sobriety.
Second-year Sobriety, Paperback (September 1998)View all books by Guy Kettelhack
Here people in recovery share their experiences and insights in dealing with long suppressed feelings of anger, loss, guilt, love and self-acceptance. Kettelhack shows how 'sticking with it' ultimately creates a sense of life as an ongoing adventure, more vivid and exciting than thought possible. The book has examples from the lives of real people.
US Kirkus Review » An intelligent but awkward little book arguing that the more outre sexual needs and fantasies of gay men should be indulged rather than suppressed. Kettelhack, the author of numerous self-help/recovery books, begins by positing a Jekyll-and-Hyde relationship between his own quotidian self and the part of him that delights in slapping French boys at S&M clubs; fessing up to the importance of one's baser urges, says the author, is the only way to escape feeling guilty about them. The gamy testimonials of a handful of gay men are offered as evidence of the pitfalls of compartmentalizing the Hyde side. The first of these tells of a man who had hosted multiple personalities, among them a vicious, gore-obsessed "leather biker top"; when a nonjudgmental lover accepted all the personalities, the man's psyche miraculously reintegrated, which happily reduced the risk that his homicidal fantasies would be played out. Dubious authenticity aside, the anecdote is so extreme that it will speak to few readers. One interviewee anguished before confessing his sock fetish to his lover, who didn't mind at all; another is an Episcopal priest who found his libido only after getting decked out in nun drag for a Halloween party. The author suggests that promiscuity is the natural male impulse, and pooh-poohs the "ultimately guilt-inducing message that there's only one kind of right sex - the intimate kind." As advertised by the redundant jumble of metaphors in the title and subtitle, many terminologies are called up to explain the same simple concept: Jekyll vs. Hyde eventually becomes formal-Apollonian-Warrior-superego-Jekyll vs. volcanic-chthonic-Dionysian-Shaman-id-Hyde. Calling on authorities from Jung to Camille Paglia for support, Kettelhack invariably encourages gay men to embrace their inner Hydes. If you strip away the four-letter words, this is a routine self-help book: a useful insight or two amid much jargon-ridden psychologizing that often leaves subtleties unaddressed. (Kirkus Reviews)
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Author Biography - Guy Kettelhack
Guy Kettelhack is the author and coauthor of more than twenty-five nonfiction books. He lives in New York City.
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