The Revolutionary Approach to Raising Your Kids by Keeping Your Cool
By (author) Hal Edward Runkel
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Screamfree Parenting by Hal Edward Runkel
Book DescriptionChapter One: Parenting Is Not About Kids, It's About Parents "It's not you, it's me." - George Costanza,Seinfeld The greatest thing you can do for your kids is learn to focus on yourself. That statement might not make complete sense right now. It might, in fact, seem downright offensive. What? Turn the focus away from my children and onto myself? Isn't that against all the rules? No, it isn't. I'm not proposing that you put your children last on the list. Far from it. What I am saying is that by focusing on yourself, you will have a healthier, happier relationship with your whole family. You see, most of us have been operating with a faulty model of how to live in our relationships. That's not to say our relationships are all faulty, but the model sure is. We've been operating with a model that says in order to have healthy relationships, we need to focus on meeting other people's needs, trying to serve them and make them happy. To even question such a model draws controversy, I know, but stay with me. By focusing on yourself, you will have a healthier, happier relationship with your whole family. This book is going to talk about why this model is so faulty, particularly in our parent-child relationships. For now, there are a few simple things we should consider. First, it's a given that there are things in this world we can control and things we cannot control. Now ask yourself this question: How smart is it to focus your energy on something you can't do anything about, something you cannot control? Answer: Not very. Follow-up question: Which category do your kids fall into? In other words, are your children something you can control or something you cannot control? Here's an even tougher question: Even if you could control your kids, should you? Is that what parenting is all about? And what if it's not the kids who are out of control? A fundamental assertion of this book is that God wants us to parent our children the way he parents us. Think about how he relates to you. Does he constantly hover around you trying to make you completely comfortable? Is God some kind of control freak, pulling your strings and manipulating your every choice? Of course not! God is concerned about you, but he does not allow you to set his agenda. He always acts out of his own integrity. What would your relationships look like if you started to do the same? Who's Really Out of Control Here?
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Book DetailsISBN: 9781400073733
(203mm x 132mm x 18mm)
Imprint: Three Rivers Press
Publisher: Three Rivers Press
Publish Date: 1-Aug-2008
Country of Publication: United States
Books By Author Hal Edward Runkel
Screamfree Marriage, Paperback (February 2012)
Through the bestselling "ScreamFree Parenting," Hal Runkel showed thousands of parents how keeping their cool can revolutionize their family life. In his groundbreaking new book, Runkel now shows couples how learning to stay calm in the face of common marital conflicts is the key to creating and enjoying a deep, lifelong connection.
Screamfree Parenting, Paperback (December 2008)» View all books by Hal Edward Runkel
This practical, effective guide for parents introduces proven principles for overcoming the anxieties and stresses of parenting and setting new patterns of connection and cooperation in order to give kids what they need to grow into caring, self-directed adults.
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Author Biography - Hal Edward Runkel
HAL EDWARD RUNKEL is a licensed marriage and family therapist, relationship coach, and international speaker. He is founder and president of ScreamFree Living, Inc.--dedicated to calming the world one relationship at a time. Hal's principles have already helped thousands of families revolutionize their relationships. He lives with his wife, Jenny, and their two children just outside Atlanta, Georgia.
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