The author has done a great job of making this important subject, dear to all our parenting hearts, useful and practical from page one. Rarely as parents do we get to look at our children’s emotional needs with such pragmatism. I must admit that when I saw the title I was worried it would be a long thesis with little practical application but was pleasantly surprised as soon as I opened the first page. Reading this book, you can quickly discover the difference between empathy, listening, attachment and approval among many other important communication mediums with your kids. Simple charts and examples allow you to flick and learn within minutes if necessary. But read the whole book; you will be talking about it and find yourself advising parents with examples very quickly. Useful for parents of all ages but I can imagine the 5-12 yr olds running for it. Well done and thank you, Vicky!