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Description - Too Close For Comfort by Geraldine K. Piorkowski

Countless experts offer us advice on how to create the "perfect relationship," fostering the unrealistic expectation that forming an intimate bond will be a painless experience. Unfortunately, few experts are willing to confront the powerful challenges and emotions inherent within close relationships today. In contrast to other intimacy books, Too Close for Comfort vividly describes the surprising dangers, damage to self-esteem, inadequacies, and immaturities that characterize the contemporary state of romantic intimacy. Too Close for Comfort compassionately explores the risks and misunderstandings that occur within many intimate relationships. Romantic partners tend to hurt each other not only by insensitivity and neglect, but also by criticism, abuse, and betrayal - most of which spring from insecurity. Dr. Piorkowski, a noted consulting psychologist and educator, focuses on the vulnerability both partners experience in intimacy due to the emergence of strong, unrealistic needs that are almost impossible to satisfy. The author contends that people avoid the perils of intimacy by donning one or more defensive "masks" - ranging from acting superior to mysterious, comical to withdrawn, self-sufficient to dependent - in an effort to protect themselves from emotional exposure. Presenting a fascinating range of clinical examples, she sensitively depicts the fears of intimacy that limit contact, namely psychological concerns about loss of control or autonomy, feelings of disappointment and abandonment, or of being attacked and made to feel guilty. Depicting women's reliance on verbal expression to achieve an emotional connection versus men's dependence on physical contact, Dr. Piorkowski brilliantly elucidates the complex barriers to intimacy, especially the chasms of misunderstanding created by vast sexual differences and attitudes. While this book is unique in its exposition of the dangers in intimacy, its message is not pessimistic.

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Book Details

ISBN: 9780738205823
ISBN-10: 0738205826
Format: Paperback
(210mm x 140mm x mm)
Pages: 320
Imprint: Da Capo Press Inc
Publish Date: 12-Jul-2001
Country of Publication: United Kingdom

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Author Biography - Geraldine K. Piorkowski

Geraldine K. Piorkowski, Ph.D., is Director of the Counseling centre and Clinical Asssociate Professor in the Department of Psychology at the University of Illinois at Chicago. Formerly, she was Associate Professor and Chair of the Psychology Department at Roosevelt University in Chicago. With a Ph.D. in clinical psychoogy from the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign, Dr. Piorkowski has worked with a broad range of clients, including adolescents, alcoholics, and married ciouples. She has also written a number of professional articles and participated in numerous talk-radio programs devoted to mental health topics. The author resides in Wilmette, Ilinois, with her husband and has three grown children.